Today was Mother’s Day. If I were feeling more eloquent, I would write a post about the innumerable ways my mom has blessed my life through her love, her teaching, and her example. But the truth is that for most of the day, my thoughts have been going out to all those for whom Mother’s Day may not be a happy day, to those who may have wounds that are reopened somewhat by all the hype about mothers and motherhood today.
And so this post is for my friends…
…who have recently lost a mother,
…whose mother has been several years gone,
…who are struggling with infertility,
…who are walking the adoption road,
…who suffered abuse or neglect at the hands of a mother,
…who are dealing with a rebellious or wayward child,
…who have lost a child,
…who have suffered a miscarriage,
…who are separated from their children,
…who are raising their children alone,
…who are single and childless…
…whose children have chosen a life of service on the other side of the world.
See, I’ve been in church services where they asked all the mothers to stand and gave them all a rose. And I appreciate the sentiment behind honoring mothers and motherhood, but it never really occurred to me until recently that something like that could be painful for many women. And so, I just want to say, in case today was hard for you, that today, you were close to my heart. Today, I prayed that you would know the peace and comfort of the Lord who “heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3).
Today, you are loved.